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9-25-08 He…

He…

…looks at me across a crowded room and our eyes meet and we smile.

…helps me teach our children how to become wonderful people.

…takes care of me when I am sick.

…looks forward to playing Santa with me for the kids on Christmas Eve.

…enjoys a family outing going out to pick out our Christmas tree and cut it down.

…remembers at the right time when I least expect it to surprise me when I have said

    “Oh I wish/want this or that” or “wouldn’t it be nice if we had one of those” etc.

…gives the best massages.

…is found out in the garage tinkering on a project or fixing one of the kids’ toys.

…is very serious when he needs to be but can make me laugh like nobody else.

…wipes away my tears.

…is never rude, disrespectful, cruel, or hurtful.

…enjoys being outdoors.

…craves knowledge, family time, and our time alone.

…is damn sexy to me.

…watches me as I am sleeping.

…has a passion with me that cannot be stopped.

…is affectionate in front of everyone, including the kids.

…scrapes my windows for me on an icy morning.

…calls just to say he loves me or needed to hear my voice.

…shows an interest and cares about my friends and family as well as his own.

…sends or brings home flowers just because.

…wants never to let me go once he has me in his arms.

…kisses like nobody’s business.

…enjoys a game, dinner, or movie with friends once in awhile.

…gets up with the kids in the middle of the night to let me sleep when I really need it.

…walks with me and is proud to have me next to him.

…enjoys our endless conversations about nothing and everything.

…is not selfish and takes nobody for granted.

…surprises me at work for a lunch date, just because.

…makes me get lost when I look into his eyes.

…blushes when I get school girl googly-eyed over him.

…believes that a variety of music is a must in life.

…makes me blush.

…has a glass of wine and dinner waiting for me when I get home on occasion.

…makes sure my gas tank is not on empty when done using my car.

…helps a stray animal find its way home.

…keeps the home fires burning and makes the biggest campfires ever.

…asks what he can do to help if I am preoccupied with something.

…never forgets a birthday, our anniversary, or holiday.

…brags about me to his friends and family.

…wants the kind of love that movies and songs are made for.

…is respectful, polite, flirty, courteous, responsible, and doesn’t care who knows it.

…cuddles on the couch with me while we watch a movie or just want to have quiet time.

…doesn’t mind when I say “Hunny, can you reach that for me please?”

…he is not shallow.

…enjoys his guy time and agrees that my girl time is important too.

…is my ultimate protector.

…will wake me gently if I fall asleep on the couch and it is time for bed.

…will happily kill spiders and just shakes his head at how ridiculous I am to be afraid.

…holds me closer for scary movies.

…watches a chick flick with me as I will watch guy movies with him.

…loves sports.

…calls me baby.

…cradles my face in his hands when he kisses me.

…can’t wait to tell me about his day or let me rescue him from a bad one.

…loves surprises and loves to surprise others.

…is positive, believes in being proactive, & doesn’t dwell on things he cannot change.

…believes that it takes work to have a healthy relationship.

…doesn’t believe in going to bed angry.

…is honest, reliable, attentive, & has a big heart.

…does not do drugs.

…loves life and embraces each new day as another chance to do good.

…remembers to be grateful.

…appreciates a deep conversation once in awhile.

…is not afraid to say “I am sorry.”

…laughs when I am silly.

…understands my secret crush on Matthew McConaughey.

…likes candles.

…can’t wait to come home to me and our life at the end of the day.

…doesn’t like to complain.

…believes that he is in charge of the choices he makes in life.

…can appreciate a good joke.

…is not the jealous type.

…loves how excited I get over snow and silly little things that make me happy.

…will dance with me.

…loves the beach.

…knows how important it is to cherish the ones you love.

…makes me happy to call him mine.

…is a big kid at heart.

…gets touched by the little/simple things in life.

…is waiting for me to find him.

…and maybe just a few more things that I have forgotten at the moment…………..

…will lay with me in the grass to watch the clouds roll by or star gaze.

…will wake me to join him & watch the sun rise.

…will happily engage in a water fight while washing our cars.

…knows how to prepare my cup of coffee just right.

…can ask me anything.

…is the bravest man I know.

…can think of nobody else he wants to spend his life with.

…knows just what I need or what I might be thinking—sometimes before I may know.

…isn’t ashamed to share his fears, dreams, secrets, doubts, or plans with me.

…pulls me back to him for one more kiss.

…is comfortable telling me what his heart is feeling exposing that soft side of him because he knows that he is safe with me.

…understands the passion felt in a good song.

…asks me how I am.

…agreess that the honeymoon stage is never over.

…truly needs me.

…would jump into a big pile of leaves even if it means the pile just got messed up.

…can hop in the car and take a road trip anywhere, or plan something ahead of time.

…isn’t afraid to ask for or protect what is his.

…has no doubt that he means the world to me.